Surf girls would go!

Yes... it happened yesterday!  We all kind of knew that

the 40 something surf girls would go and yesterday one

of them did.  Perfect  small waves, sunny skies, a mild 

December day, and a first brand new board how could 

they resist. One went, the other almost got in a fight with

her boss trying to get out of work to catch the mid-day

incoming tide.  One is stoked beyond belief, the other

still waiting, board yet to be waxed, yet to get wet.  The

clock continues to tick.  It's a long time before spring.

Surfing and the overall stoke that it can create is amazing.

Sharing the stoke and watching it grow in someone who'd

never expected to get bitten by the surf bug is a joyous experience.

Today on our morning beach walk all she could do was talk about

her first session on her very own board.  Everything, from how

"cool" it is that wetsuits actually work to how stable and light

the new board is, was described in detail.  Highlights of waves

came to life. The experience of  just how clear and clean the

water was relived. It's almost as if  we are following some primal

surfer instinct, something in surfer DNA that demands we "talk

story", talk about waves, experiences, joys.  It's as if those sessions

are imprinted in our brains permitting us to re-live them, to feel

them and carry them with us.  What a blessing.

One went - will the other go?  Eddie would go!

Variations

Yesterday was 60 degrees here in NJ.  What a nice late

December surprise.  It was the kind of day that the further

inland you were the warmer it was courtesy of a south wind

blowing at 20 mph or so.  Walking on the boardwalk or at

the beach was a cool challenge while walking a mile or so

inland where the wind velocity was broken was a spring like

pleasure.  What a variation.

Today brought bright sunshine, temperatures in the 40's and

a nice little south swell.  The break at the end of my street 

looked like Malibu with waist high peelers that went on

forever. The variation in the sandbars have made for this unusual

set-up.

The ocean, the waves, the beach, and the weather all vary.  Our moods

can vary as can our outlook on things.  Accepting variations rather

than fighting them can add pleasure to our lives.  Appreciating that

things aren't generally the same can be a calming thought because

that means change is inevitable.  Some changes will be great and changes

we welcome while others might not be so good.  It's good to know

that everything eventually varies, everything eventually changes.  Nothing

lasts forever.

It's all relative

Yesterday we had a nice Christmas surprise.  We

awoke to find some fun waist to chest sized waves,

fairly mild temperatures in the low 50's, offshore

winds, and water temperatures just below 50 degrees.

Not too bad for the end of December.  Not too bad

is a relative term.

Terry Gibson is a dear friend and Florida native.  He

is one of the most passionate activists I know and one

hell of a writer and editor.  Terry is quite the fisherman,

hunter, and surfer and all around great travel partner. I

love that Terry can take being teased with the best of them.

Last week Terry was in NJ on a cold, blustery day when

Sandy Hook was breaking.  Now when Terry talks about

cold water or cold weather you must remember that he

is a Florida boy through and through.  Cold means wearing

a 3 mil wetsuit without booties in 60 degree water.  That's

his cold.  I'm still smiling after hearing  him tell me about his

experience at Sandy Hook.  " I don't know how you guys do it"

he said amongst other memorable things.

Einstein's theory of relativity may or may not apply to Terry.

I do know that for the entirety of Terry's session he was fully

experiencing the moment, fully alive and loving every cold

minute of it.  

Connecting with the wave

Kelly Slater is amazing and might be the bast surfer

the world has ever seen.  Slater has the ability to

surf well and fit in to waves of all sizes.  As he matures

it is interesting to notice how his environmental

awareness and philosophical approach to surfing 

evolves.  

In a recent interview Slater talked about "putting

so much heart and soul into the moment".  A truly

Zen like way to look at life.  He went on to describe

his approach to surfing by saying "as a wave presents

itself, you do whatever you are asked (by it) to do".

You take your lead from the wave or life, rather than trying

to impose your will upon it.  In the same interview he

discussed "some kind of connection between people

and the environment, that when done the right way...

when you see people link things together in just the

right way, it's like that thing already existed, that was

what was supposed to happen.  My goal, all the time,

is to feel like I'm in tune with the wave and the environment".

Isn't that how we all should look at our behavior, our

connection with our planet and all it has to offer? We

must aim to fit in, be part of, and link with the environment.

The US Oceans Commission and the Pew Oceans Commission

recommended we take an ecosystems management approach

to looking at the ocean and its' worsening problems. Most of

those problems have come from us not being "in tune" as

Slater describes it,  not seeing our place as part of the

ecosystem, with our oceans, or our environment.

Strive to be "in tune", to "link" and to "put your heart

and soul in the moment".  Interesting thoughts from an

amazing surfer.  Thanks Kelly 

Surf girls get their boards

The "40 something surf girls" custom ordered surfboards

have finally arrived!  Sure it took forever for them to get here

and Bill Stewart and his gang in San Clemente should be ashamed

of themselves - (4 months, come on Bill), but the boards are here

and the "surf girls" are stoked!

What surfer will ever forget that first new board?  

Mine was a 10'2", orange, Lanai Kai pop out purchased for 

 $100 or so from a local sporting goods store. Why

I got a 10'2" I'll never know as I was probably weighed all 

of 125 lbs. soaking wet.  Who cared.  It was mine! 

I've had lots of new boards in the

45 or so years since then.   I probably would have a

tough time even remembering them all.  Ah but that first

board. I often search garage sales, flea markets, and craig's list

to see it someone might be selling it, selling an important piece

of my surfing life.

The "40 something surf girls" have displayed amazing patience

 and grace over the last months.  They've waited with great anticipation

and resisted getting angry or upset.  Sure they missed having

their own boards for the fall season, but the waiting almost

seemed to add to their stoke.  As one of them said the other day

before the news of their arrival came, " I can't get upset by things

like that, what good will it do? The board will come eventually."

What a great outlook.  What a great lesson.

It's a long time until late April or May when the water here in

NJ begins to warm up.  Let's see if their patience holds out,

after all the water temperature is still in the 50's and a 4 mil

wet suit works.  Let's watch and see what happens if we get a

sunny warm day with fun looking surf.  What do you think?

Pick up 1 item

You know that I've been somewhat obsessed with picking

up bottle caps.  Today, unfortunately, was a banner day. We've

had quite a bit of rain during the past week.  I

filled up yet another 5 gallon bucket of caps.  As I gathered my

usual bounty I noticed yet another plague, plastic cigar tips.  They

are everywhere!  With no particular effort I picked up hundreds

of them this morning.

I don't know very many people who smoke those little cigars

with the plastic tips.  Sure I know they are a favorite of those

who smoke weed, but there can't be that many smokers can there?

It's enough to make you sick all this plastic.  Guess the guy in the old

movie  " The Graduate"was right when he hold the Dustin Hoffman

character that he had one word for him as he considered his future

"plastics".  

If you haven't already please check out the "Rise Above Plastics" web site.

Join the campaign, take the pledge.  If you aren't ready to do that how

about beginning by exercising the power of one.  Next time you go to the

beach pick one plastic item...forks, spoons, straws, bottles, caps, cigar tips,

you get the idea.  Bring a bag and just pick up that item.  It might open

up your eyes and the eyes of those around you.  Maybe you can lead by

example and encourage everyone else to do the same.  Pick up 1 item, collect

it and realize the impact one person can have.  Paulo Fiere, a South American

literacy leader once designed a campaign to help educate people.  He called it

each one teach one.  Do what you can...please?

I don't like the cold

I must admit it I hate the cold weather and am not 

at all a fan of winter!  The older I get the more I come to

grips with that simple fact.  Winter, to me, is something

to be endured not enjoyed.  

This morning the wind was offshore and fairly strong.

The surf was in the chest to head high range and Loch

Arbour had pointbreak like waves peeling for 100 or so yards.

I must confess I was glad I had to go to work.  I'm sure

once I put on my 5 mil wetsuit, boots, and gloves, and actually

got in the water I would have had fun but... Perhaps it's the

awareness that I've just returned from Puerto Rico and will be

heading back in a month or so.  Perhaps it is my advancing age.

Maybe it's just my aversion to cold.  Perhaps it's the sum of 

all the parts.

Lots of folks have to endure much worse these days.  My office

is filling up with clients whose concerns are much greater than

mine.  Why I'm not as stoked to go surfing when the air temperature is

25 degrees with a wind chill really isn't much of a real important

issue in the bigger picture but I really don't like the cold.